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Main bas khulke saans Lena chahti hoon

 Kya ladki hona aasan hai..?


Sab puchte hain, lekin main kehna chahti hoon — ladki hona matlab har pal apni smartness, apna logic, apni awaz daba ke jeena. Ladki hone ka ek certificate pehle hi mil jaata hai –

 “yeh toh bechari hai… chhodo… ladki hai.”

“Ladki hai toh sarcasm nahi karegi…”

“Logic nahi samjhegi…”

“Shaadi karwao, zyada padhegi toh problem ho jaayegi…”


Kyuuuu?


Ab me esa kyu keh rhi hoon..?


Ek din


Ek din main apni friend se baatein kar rhi thi hmari abhi graduation khtm huyi hai toh hme next pg me admission Lena tha bahut confusion tha . Jab tumhara aim clear nhi rehta toh man bhatkta rehta hai kbhi koi yeh karne ki keh de toh uska sochne lgte ho kbhi kuchh koi or keh de toh whi thik smjhne lgte ho .


 Toh meri friend ne bola ki wah law karegi LLB ka form bhar diya hai usne.


 Tohh mene bhi socha agr wah kar rhi hai toh me bhi kar leti hoon wese mera koi khas interest nhi tha lekin me hmesha se hi ek dominant bnna chahti hoon esa dominant nhi ki me logo par adesh chlau bss itna ki me khulkar saans le saku apne faisle lene me mujhe koi bojh na ho , ek alg freedom mere liye dominant ka matlab yah hai… or isse achi chij mujhe nhi lgi .


Toh mene papa se bola ki papa mujhe law karna hai toh papa ne pehle toh ye bol ke baat tal di ki tumhara stream change ho jayega… phir me dubara unke pichhe pad gyi ki nhi papa mujhe yhi karna hai , wese wah ese insaan nhi hai ki ye mt karo wo mt karo wo chahte hai ki me independent Banu khud ke liye kuchh karu , kisi pe depend na rhu… no matter ki mera pati kya karega… lekin ve ek society ke aadmi bhi hai jha hmm alg ho skte hai lekin hme smaj ko bhi sath dekhna hota hai..


Toh mere baar baar force karne ke baad pta hai unhone kya kaha unhone kuchh esa kaha jispe mujhe samjh nhi aaya hasu ya ye Sochu ki log ese bhi soch skte hai…


Unhone kaha – “ Beta esi ladkiyon ke liye ladka nhi milta…”


Mene kaha esa kyu??


Toh wo kehte hai… kyuki esi ladkiyan rajnitik hoti hai, arguments karti hai, scarasm karti hai….or kisi ko esi ladki nhi chahta…


Mene kaha ye kya soch hoti hai logo ki , agar ladki hai toh kya tum uska future uske paida hote hi tay kar doge usse kya karna hai kya nhi… agar isse uske ghar wale padha rhe hai toh wo usse padha rhe hai ek ehsaan kar rhe hai . Agr isse nokri krne de rhe hai , toh usse karne hi de rhe hai kyuki wo ladki hai wahh! 


"Tum ladki ho. Tumhe sirf tolerate kiya jaa sakta hai, empower nahi."




This is my real story. But maybe, it’s yours too. If it is, let’s keep writing our stories. Loudly. Proudly. Together.


🖋️ — Diary of Wings

 



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